Monogamy

The word "monogamy" really interests me. I just started watching SATC (Sex and The City) season 1 and I came across one of the episode concerning Monogamy. What do you guys think of monogamy? Do people in this era still practice monogamy? Do YOU believe in committing yourself to one forever?

To me, feelings is indescribable. One minute you feel like you are in love, the next minute you might be hating for the rest of your life. Therefore, i dont think I can believe in monogamy. The world divorce rate is increasing gradually. Its like a cool disease in this era where people just divorce whenever love doesnt exist in their relationship anymore. Women are getting stronger and the ugly truth is women no longer rely on men and vice versa. Im not saying that people shoudnt practice monogamy or the opposite-polygamy. Its just really amazing if one gets to meet the other half and spend the rest of his life with her. Think about it. Can you actually control your attractions towards other people and fully focus just on one till you die?

I seriously doubt that people practice it. People nowadays are too greedy. Their needs and wants is a never ending list. What more to say love for others? People are cheating one another these days and it seems to be a normal action and not a sin. Im one greedy fellow too. Admit it, you are greedy too, isnt it?

Frankly, marriage is a big deal to me. Its like totally giving the whole me to someone else. Trusting him to take care of me and accepting all my flaws. Exchanging vows and swear to never hurt each other for the rest of my life. Though monogamy is something hard to achieve in the future, I still hope that one day, when I reach the moment of marriage, Im sure to hold on to it till I die.