-Relationships-

Relationships. Its something that is so hard to explain. It can be lovely, sweet and romantic but it can also be scary and hurtful at the same time. Once, i vowed not to involve myself in it ever again but i guess nobody wants to be lonely, isnt it? lols. So ive changed my mind and im glad ive gotten over everything and am ready for a new start although im still afraid of it. It hurts to know lovely couples around me break up. It hurts to know that they are going through what Ive been through or maybe something worst. I guess no matter how good things are, they will eventually come to an end. Young people like me can never seek "forever" because we are still young and curious. We want to try to be with different people. Thats why to me, 90% of guys are jerks and 99.5% of us girls are naive idiots. Dont get me wrong. We girls are indeed naive! We know that we should stay away from bad guys and yet, we just cant help to fall for them. Why? Bad guys are somehow interesting and attractive, aint they? Haha. Guys, aint it hard for you to play the role? To be good or bad? Well, the answer is you cant be too good nor too bad. We leave you guys in a hard situation, dont we? :)

Till today, I dont understand why do love exist in such a unique way. Why do people fall in and out of love? Ive heard and watched people torturing themselves for love. Trying to cut themselves, drunk themselves, or use any other stupid suicidal methods to mend their heartbreaks. The stupidest method is to throw themselves to others to seek for care. I had a friend who hugged this really huge teddy bear given by her ex wherever she goes. I remember accompanying her to the park while she hugged the bear and cried really hard. You know who you are! Do you feel stupid now? LOL.

Commitment. Attachment. NEVER, EVER be too attached. Its bad. It really is. Best to let a relationship be simple. Quarrels. Yes, they do make the bond stronger, but they can also make the bond fall apart. Girls, DONT love the guy more than he loves you. And DONT ever let the guy put you down. Its the dumbest thing to do. Guys should love us for what we are and not try to change us to what they want us to be. After all, we all have our own attractions that make them fall for us in the first place, isnt it? Show your GIRL POWER if he puts you down!

Normally, happy couples will gain weight at the beginning of their relationships and to me, these extra weights are called happy fat. So, its not wrong to gain weight just because you are happy but of course, must give yourself a limit too. When you feel that you cant take the fatness in you, tell your partner. Work out together. Control the comsumptions. Couples must always look out and support each other to survive.

Babes, if your instinct tells you that your guy is not treating you right, believe it. If your instinct tells you he is cheating on you, believe it! Dont try to pretend you dont feel that way and try to drag the relationships longer because you will end up getting really hurt. I believe that girl's instinct are always right. Never, ever play the mum/sister role. It sucks big time. This will only let him take advantage of you. There wont be any appreaciation to what you did for him but demands for more. This will only leave you feeling miserable and suffocated.

When the relationships fall apart, I know its hard. Either one will feel alone although we all have friends and family around. Especially at night. You cant help but to think about it and your tears cant help falling down. Reminiscing. That sucks, right? You will feel like no one will ever understand what you are going through. But hey, ive been through that, alright? I cant stand sadness. Its really torturing. Thats why it suddenly hit me that im a freaking idiot. No use crying till your eyes are swollen. Till you cant eat and sleep. When you cry, think of this. He/She is having a great time there while you cry like an idiot here?! SO NOT WORTH IT! One piece of advice for all of you. JUST FREAKING MOVE ON! Learn to let go. Its his/her lost anyways, right? Like what Kit told me before. When we break up, dont ever feel like its the end of the world. Its good news instead! You know why? Because we'd just dated one out of the zillions of guys/girls in the world! There are still millions and zillions of guys/girls waiting for us to discover them! Minus the ah peks and ah mas. Haha! Time heals all wounds. Its true. Dont be afraid of facing a new life. Dont be afraid of being alone because NO ONE is alone unless they themselves push others aside. Be excited to meet new people.

We all deserve to seek for our own happiness. Learn from our mistakes and make sure the next person we meet will be better than the last. :)